Bye² BF..

BF? boyfriend? bestfriend? bukan.. tapi shortform for breast feeding la..

ramai yang ckp..
"ayden nak masuk 3 tahun still bf???"
"geli laa.."
"pelik nye.."
"patut berenti kan.."
"knape tak letak benda pahit je"

but the thing is.. only the mother knows what's best for the son kan? sebab lain budak lain perangai nya.. ada yang senang and ada yang susah.. and in ayden's case.. sangat susah.. banyak kali juga guna psychology by telling him "ayden dah big boy.. tak boleh nenen lagi.." ada laa 2 hari dulu.. dia ok.. tapi bile bangun 3am kompom melalak mcm histeria.. so mak nya yang penat and tak sampai hati pon bf ler balik anak nye.. sampai satu tahap rase.. this cannot be.. kena juga berhenti a.s.a.p. biar laa orang cakap benda2 negatif perit telinga dengar pon.. biar lah me sorang yang uruskan my way..

so on 1 June hari Jumaat (kebetulan bday opah dia..) bobo cakap nenen ade taik nenen ade taik byk kali.. so bila jumpa je dia ckp.. "ade taik ye mama?" so i said yes.. dah 11pm time dia tido, dia pun mintak laa "nak nenen mama.." ckp kat dia baik2.. "nenen kan ade taik.. tak payah laa.." then die cebik and buat suara nanges.. perlahan je.. pastu mintak "mama nak sayang.." nak sayang means nak hug.. "mama mama.. nak baby.." kalau nak baby means nak tido celah ketiak or atas badan sambil hug macam baby.." tau2 die ngantuk sgt and tido..

TAPI.. as usual kol 3am dia bangun.. so la ni.. tak dapat candu.. dia tak warning terus melalak sekuat hati tah ape nak tah.. but.. mengingatkan nasihat my SIL.. dia cakap.. biar je dia nanges sampai die berhenti sendiri.. yeah it sounds cruel.. tapi nak buat macamana kan? so i did like what my SIL told me to do.. biarkan dia menanges his heart out.. sampai stock nak muntah laa.. sampai bengkak2 mata nanges.. sampai pukul sepak terajang mama nyer ni.. redha je laa.. papa nye yg stress.. bising tak boleh tido.. susah susah.. tapi bila lagi nak ajar.. so biar.. dia menanges for nearly 30 minutes.. pastu tetido kepenatan.. then at 4am bangun mengamuk lagi.. kali ni nanges lagi kuat lagi mengganas.. hadoiii.. tp takleh give up.. last2 after 15 minutes.. datang tido kat ketiak mama nyer..

the next day.. memang mencabar.. nanges tak ingat siap hantuk2 kepala bagai.. dah mcm citer tamil.. ahaha.. mak nye tak larat sua ajeee... adehhhh! the next day.. sebelum tido ckp 5 6 kali.. "ayden, jgn bangun pagi2 nanges2 k.. jgn bgn pagi2 mintak nenen ok.. ayden dah tak bleh nenen dah.." dia termenung fikir and then cakap.. "nenen ade taik ye mama?" ye kan aje laa..pastu.. masa nak tido siap tesasul anak bujang.. "mama nak ne.." tak abes ayat.. mama dia dah besarkan mata.. trus tukar jadi ayat lain.. dan2 cakap "mama.. nak ne.. nak sayang..." hohoho.. ok mcm positif je.. then pagi tu tak bangun langsung! sampai laaa ke nursery tido nya..

kesian jugak.. sbb byk kali dia termenung.. so utk ganti candu dia.. everytime ayden nak tido.. belai rambut dia sampai dia tido.. makin sayu tengok.. kesian nye.. tapi nak buat mcmane.. hari2 seterusnya.. sampai harini ayden dah tak menyusu badan dan tak bangun pagi2 dah.. kadang2 dia tertidur sendiri.. sedih plak tengok.. tapi alhamdulillah.. berjaya juga stop kan ayden menyusu before 3tahun dengan sendiri secara rela paksa.. haha... dah bosa dah anak bujang mama.. :) legaa sgt sbb bila demam dah bleh makan ponstan.. yehaa..! ok nak lunch tapi tak tau nak makan apa.. dah 1pm.. tak klua2 lagi.. haiyyaaa.... oklah.. till next time.. Assalamualaikum.

owh mata yang sembab.. tak tido making pavlova order.. kui3x.. syukran rejeki..

Experimental Baking

I've been longing to do this like.. ages laa kan.. but as usual.. i just dunno why i never have much time for anything anymore nowdays.. it's always.. makan and entertain the lil' rascal and finally fell asleep while tucking him to sleep.. biasa laa kan.. when you reach 30+ the body seems to work on a different page than it used to.. 5 years ago.. plus the chores and tiring 2 hours drive from/to work.. *tiring* some may say "eleh.. baru nak buat ke.." or "that's not new" or anything like that.. tapi tak kesah laa kan.. wakaka.. i finally made my own pavlova.. yayy! didn't know it was that easy.. alah.. easy peasy pon 1st time fail gak skit laa.. but since kak nonie dah rajin buat mintak tips how to improve on this and that.. and wallah! people say third time is a charm right? alhamdulillah.. the first time i made pavlova.. it was ok.. but i had problem with the cream.. i whisked it too long and spoiled the whipping cream..

so the 2nd time.. i bought myself a whisker.. and whipped the cream by hand.. no mixer used.. the cream look and tasted fab! i took my pavlova to the office.. ok.. habes like kene sebat by vultures.. haha.. and my boss asked me if i would take orders lagik.. haha.. *excited* 

the 3rd time.. made it for my SIL's this time extra thick whip cream and extra strawberries..

again.. it was less than 5 minutes.. all gone.. the truth? i didn't get to eat any of the pavlova's i made.. only one or two bites je.. pow the husband's.. haiyyaaa... and.. yesterday.. bobo's officemate requested an order of my pavlova for this weekend.. yayyy! i loike... doa kan laa rezeki bertambah lepas ni.. ;-) ok got lotsa work to do.. todaloo..! Assalamualaikum!

psst >> sape² area Klang Valley yg nak order bleh email saya at farinali@gmail.com.. hehe

Medan Trip - Day 4

 

Lepak lobby hotel before check it out

Last Lunch di Restoran  Garuda yang mahal tapi takde la best mane sangat pon.. haha..

Sogo, Medan, Indonesia.

Ayden riding the choo-choo train..

 

Bye² Medan, Indonesia.. Hello Malaysia!

Medan Trip - Day 3

bye² hotel best.. tak puas duduk sini..

familia and the volcano.. hehe..

Sisters.. do we look alike now?

Sudah Sampei.. mari kita berjumpa kuda.. ngee~

Icha and her white horse.. cantik..

right picture ayden dah start panic and nak turun from horse.. but bila dah jalan horse.. siap tak nak turun.. haha..

bapak hns.. hns.. :8) btul.. kakaka.. (pembaca majalah ujang je paham)

seronok nya la dia duduk depan sorang2 dengan abang indonesia tu..tak sangka dia boleh duduk sorang dan behave.. and masa ni laa kot dia blajar the word 'hobek!!' bila nampak kuda.. LOL!

bergambar bersama Volcano lagi.. perut ku boroi bukan preknen.. jgn tny brape bulan.. kthx.

Dekat sni pon menanges² mintak bubble gun.. hadoi.. dah dpt tgk muke puas ati tu..! tsk tsk.. T__T

Lunch di Koki Sunda..

Kedai cantik, makanan sedap! i loike!!

petang tu kami ke sini.. hotel paling last and paling sempit.. mcm tune hotel pon yer.. cehs.. lagi mahal dr previous hotel sebab berada di tengah bandar Medan.. sengelss..

Malam tu diisi dengan melepak di shopping mall medan ape kelencut name tah.. and terpeengaruh beli blouse indonesia with patch lace.. kuang3x..

Gambar atas budak² Malaysia yang macam tak penah jumpe shopping mall dan stage.. Ayden tgh buat pertunjukan batak kot? erk? LOL!

Medan Trip - Day 2

Pagi di Lake Toba before off ke berastagi

Feri Anugerah ke Samosir Island..

 

Kampung Batak. Bergambar bersama Si Gale².

* apa yang diceritakan oleh Pak Anton driver kami, Si Gale² (patung dlm gambar ni) adalah anak kepada seorang batak.. tak ingat raja or orang biasa.. Si gale² telah meninggal dunia.. bila si gale² meninggal dunia bapanya teramat rindu akan anak nya lalu membuat sebuah patung yg boleh digerak²kan badan nya supaya dia dapat bermain di saat die merindui anak nya itu.. *scary much?*

Batak King and Queen kulup.. erk! hoho.

 

Shopping time! *Ayra kepochi*

Soulveniers..

On the way back to the Hotel.

Great views masa otw ke berastagi. Ikan besar tu.. history nyer dulu restaurant.. but then tak laku and gulung tikar.. scary eh?

 

Punca perjalanan kami lambat.. lori tak sepatutnya lalu jalan ni.. tapi diorg ni nak elak dari polis.. so menyusahkan org lain.. deng!

picture yg bawah tu ade org bajet hemsem pakai sunglass.. agagaga..

 

This was the best hotel sepanjang di Medan.. seriously best, cantik and sejukkkk!

 

Mat nanges..

 

Makan di gerai not so semenggah tapi makanan so sedap.. hehe..

Medan Trip - Day 1

waiting to depart at LCCT departure hall

Dalam flight..

Singgah Paten. Bukan jual ikan, tapi biskut² sedap di Medan. :-)

Breakfast nasi soto @ Rumah Makan Sinar Pagi, Medan

Lake Toba view from Lake Toba Cottage

Melepak sementara tunggu lunch time

Singgah lunch di Istana Minang 2

Pintu masuk cottage at night dan Dinner time at Waroeng Nasi Pak Pos dan di sini laa terpijak tahi anjing.. euww!